Sunday, October 09, 2005

wait a minute...

so he wasn't too happy with my e-mail. he replied back, saying i should've told him in person instead of through an email. my first instinct was to apologize, which i did. i replied back to him, saying that i was sorry that i chose this particular medium to communicate how i was feeling. i told him i did want to talk to him about it in person. then i said i would phone him tomorrow. and then i realized that i'm doing it again.

he totally turned this around on me. instead of just addressing the issue that i brought up, he gets upset because of the way i brought it up. and then, of course, i feel bad. but the issue is still out there, unaddressed. how is this all my fault in my head?

i really hope this is something that will blow over in a couple of days. at the same time, if it doesn't, obviously it wasn't meant to be...and all the other cliches that go along with self-talk.

i need help.

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