baby did a bad, bad thing

okay, so i peeked. we're doing a huge computer system overhaul at work and when i left yesterday, i had to turn off the Ninja's computer because all computers had to be off for macro updates and what not. and i peeked. and i found out that it's not Mon, but it is someone. someone i haven't met but i've heard about. someone i actually had suspicions about but thought, "no, she's, like, 23!" and i was right. so when i searched the system to read over the reference letter he wrote for her (that i typed) and her draft cover letters and CVs, i came across a document that was probably marked "confidential" before the conversion but is now available to the whole system - a list of everyone's computer passwords. and what's his password? her first name. how sophomoric can you get???

OY! what is he doing??? what is he thinking??? she's young enough to be his daughter. i think what bothers me most is that he's continuing to cheat on his wife. it's not that Sam was the love of his life and that he had to be with her - i mean, maybe she is but i now very much doubt it. i've actually lost some respect for him - a lot of respect. i think i idealized him when Sam told me of their relationship and now i know that he's just in it for the tail. Twenty-three?

the worst part is that the knowledge of this, that it's this 23 year old masters student in ontario is doing my boss, has lifted the great weight off my mind. when i read it, i wanted to run into Mon's office and hug her. maybe he's sleeping with her too but i don't think so. i think she's as in the dark about it as i was. let's face it - this chick is on her facebook! he introduced them. my suspicions began when Mon said about her, "the Ninja's trying to convince her to stay a couple more days." wha?

when i e-mailed Io about the whistler weekend, she chastized me about three single girls hanging out with a group of married men in their 40s by saying, "the Ninja's a great guy but he's married! you're not going to get very far with him!" i wanted to write back, "that is where you're wrong."

i also just found out that his car got broken into in february and, among other things that were stolen? his wedding band. oy.

i hope his kids turn out normal because that's who he's really cheating on.